A&E: Ep1
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[00:00:00] Welcome. This is Anything and Everything with Kelli Youngman Singh. We are here to live the most expansive experience of your life, guided by intuition and desire and rooted in self-trust, authenticity, and love. That's what expands your capacity to receive, allow and fully enjoy what you really want. Nothing is off limits. Nothing needs to be justified. Here for an extraordinary life and to have it all on your terms. Let's begin.
[00:00:44] Hello and welcome to the podcast. I have to say, I am so excited to be starting this new chapter, this new container in 2026. For those of you who may know me, I had a former podcast that I had taken some time away from, and during that time I really recalibrated my business, my life, I got married. So much has shifted that this really seemed like the natural evolution of where my work as a coach is heading.
[00:01:32] But really, truly, I'm so happy and grateful that you are here listening and I'm so honored to walk with you in this next season of life. What I wanna say about this podcast is that it is going to be different in the sense of I'm different. I just really am so different from when I started out my journey as a coach back in 2020. And even then, so much of what I knew and what had changed my life up until that point was so impactful, and of course, life changing. But what we know to be true about this work is that there's no end to it. We're always deepening our understanding of self, our understanding of life, and opening up to new possibilities, and that's really what this chapter is about.
[00:02:35] I have to say, I have started recording this podcast episode a couple of times and it just didn't feel a hundred percent correct. It didn't feel a hundred percent aligned. I knew I was ready to step back into recording and I noticed some subtle shoulds and things and you know, judgments coming in, and I wanted to honor that this space, one is not about perfection. You are not here to be perfect. None of us are. So I didn't wanna bring any of that along with me as I literally put out this new frequency into the universe. But two, I also wanted to let this be simple and easy, and an authentic expression of where I am now.
[00:03:33] And what's so fascinating is I am actually recording this episode in bed right now because I had the most beautiful, peaceful morning with my husband. And as I was laying there in bed, in love. Just feeling so held and safe and secure. I knew that this was the starting point. Because as I'm sitting here in my life, that feels so complete. While yes, still excited and setting new goals and creating new vision. Of course, always welcoming and working through obstacles, challenges for the growth, like opting into that. We'll get to that a little bit later... but as I was sitting here in this life that feels so rich and so full and so full of love, it really felt like this is what I want for everyone on the planet. Like this is what I want my life's work to be about. Inviting people to a space where your life gets to feel as full and rich and vibrant, and complete and peaceful as you've always wanted it to be.
[00:05:04] Now, again, this is not about you wanting the same things as I want. If what I am creating inspires you, amazing. But really truly, this work has been and always will be about you. It's you and you, right? Because the life I am living now at one point was a literal fantasy. I hoped and dreamed and envisioned love could feel like this, but I had no evidence of it in my day-to-day life. And many of you know that prior to meeting my husband, I was in a long-term relationship that I had outgrown that was no longer a fit. And I'm always extremely grateful for that chapter of my life, because I learned so much. But even then, I was meditating on love and what I knew it could feel like. And now I'm living that experience. And in so many areas of my life, I had to be willing to believe in it first.
[00:06:15] When I manifested my Broadway debut in less than six months, I had decided I was gonna be on Broadway by the end of the year. And I literally just came up on a decade since I made my Broadway debut. And so these practices, these principles have been a part of how I've been living my life and as I've expanded my work as a life coach and as I've worked with more and more incredible coaches, I've really deepened and expanded how I approach this. How I enter the space, and of course the depth, the lived experience, the embodiment of these concepts and tools has just shifted profoundly. And so I'm really, really looking forward to having a space to share my thoughts and share my ideas and share the tools that have been working for my clients behind the scenes that I haven't been sharing as much publicly, because again, I've been in a season of recalibration and adjusting to who I am as Kelli Youngman Singh.
[00:07:29] And I'll also share that, you know, I mentioned I made my Broadway debut in 2016 and my career has been so incredible up until now. But I'm also really excited to have even bigger goals for myself and to be manifesting new desires. And yes, continuing to call in Broadway contracts, but also stepping into what is my life as an actor, as Kelli Singh on screen, on tv, and I've been really enjoying expanding my skillset in that area as well.
[00:08:12] So this first episode, I really just wanna welcome you into the space. I want you to know that on this podcast we are gonna be talking about Anything and Everything, and maybe I should give you some context to this too. I started saying this because I want you to know that you can have Anything and Everything that your heart desires. I think sometimes we get into a place in our life, whether it's, you know, financially or personally or even professionally, where we feel like we have to really constrain and we feel like we have to be so decided about where we're heading, which I do still believe. However, it starts feeling like we have to pick and choose and we have to prioritize one thing over the other. And what I know to be true now is that is just not true. Right? It might feel true when we are gripping so tightly and when we are still trying to earn our worth or our value and we're trying to justify certain things that we're doing. However, when we know that we get to have it all on our terms, there's a different sense of ease and spaciousness that presents itself, especially when we have the emotional tools and the capacity to support the life circumstances that are happening.
[00:09:46] Because we're not creating our dreams in a vacuum. We're creating our dreams in this reality, in this world that has lots of different things, everything good, bad, right, wrong in between. And you'll hear me say that phrase again because really, truly, it's all about perspective, right? But when we're so tightly tethered to or attached to a perception of our life that is not lovingly neutral, we start feeling like, well, I can't feel good until I have this thing, or I can't start adding on dreams or responsibilities until I have this figured out. And we start compartmentalizing who we are. And so this next chapter of my work is really about sharing what it looks like when we start treating ourselves as one whole human being with lots of passions and lots of different facets of our life within one identity. And that is what helps and supports us from overthinking and over shape shifting and overcompensating to try and meet the needs of others, versus really centering our own experience and knowing that it's the most loving thing we can do for everyone in our lives. To be solely responsible for ourselves and our emotions, and to surrender that control of other people, knowing that they have the responsibility and that they can take the responsibility to care for themselves, right? Not meaning we're gonna all run around being assholes, but that we create more mental space by letting go of what was never ours to begin with. While still being a loving, compassionate, generous, kind human being, like that actually is possible.
[00:11:47] And so Anything and Everything is really about letting yourself lead from desire, letting yourself lead from honoring what feels most true for you without shrinking, without trying to be realistic, without sort of quitting before you even give it a go 'cause you don't wanna fail, right? Like, this entire body of work that I'm about to create that's been in the works for the last decade and you know, even more so the last half a decade as I've been working with clients and helping them change their lives in profound ways. This is about inviting you to dream bigger. This is about allowing you to step back in to really desiring the fullest vision of your life instead of orienting your dream towards what feels familiar or safe or likely.
[00:12:50] And I'll also share, and maybe this is a good thing to just mention as we're starting this new chapter together, is that I do think that in the last couple of years I had some goal aversion and I had some resistance to setting goals because there was still some lingering disappointment or things that I was manifesting that didn't come true or, you know, didn't come into my experience as quickly as I had hoped. And so if you're in that space, just know that it's totally normal. And the antidote to that really is desire. It's knowing that it's okay, that you were disappointed, it's okay that you felt frustrated. It's okay. Any human emotion that comes up. I'm gonna continue to teach and share and support you in knowing that we get to partner with and really love all emotions, not just the perceived positive ones. We get to even embrace and welcome and learn from our perceived negative emotions, which is gonna create so much internal safety to keep going.
[00:14:02] And so it's not a problem when we don't experience our desires or reach our dreams, our goals as quickly as we had hoped, and we still have to opt in and be willing to dream. Because I do believe my relationship with goals has shifted recently. Partially because I'm working with a new coach and I'm feeling really supported and held, but also because I do subscribe to the idea that we're here to grow. Like we are here on this planet, and if you look at just evolution and the way things are constantly expanding within the universe, like we are a hundred percent part of that trajectory too. And so I think it's really healthy and really natural to have a sense of ambition, a sense of drive, a sense of, I don't know, curiosity about how far, how capable am I when I really just let go of any limitation that I'm making or projecting in my own mind, right?
[00:15:18] And you know, I hold a lot of grace for myself because I think it's easy to look back and say, oh, well I didn't achieve that goal and I didn't achieve that goal. And like slowly along the way I stopped setting certain types of goals because I, again, was having some goal aversion and I was feeling a little bit. I don't know. Yeah. Just in a space of like gentleness with myself. Which again is not a problem if you're there. And, this is a great chance to step back into the arena with me. And to that point of like, I was just in a season of recalibrating.
[00:15:55] If you guys don't know, I literally ended a long-term relationship almost eight and a half, nine years. Within weeks, I met my husband. Now, I didn't know he was gonna be my husband at that time, but there was a lot of shifting and releasing. And of course, the emotional tools that I have is also part of what allowed me to move through that transition really cleanly and completely. To give myself time to process it while also being available to what was present and the magic that was so alive with my husband. Like it was undeniable. But that was lot of change. I moved, I got engaged. I planned a wedding in four months, but this is also the byproduct of having tools that allow me to make decisions quickly, that allow me to trust myself, to know and honor my intuition, because if I'm being honest, there were people in my life that were a little concerned for me.
[00:17:02] And you know, I guess from the outside perspective, I could understand someone slowing me down or, you know, warning me, or telling me to be cautious. But again, no one is actually in the lived experience of my life other than me. Just like no one is in the lived experience of your life other than you. Which is what makes it imperative to develop these tools and skills where you have an internal compass that you can trust. That when you hear yourself, you know how to honor yourself. Because again, so much of my life has changed and now I have a 12-year-old stepdaughter, and Terry and I are fully preparing to start our family and all of these things are backed and supported by the foundation that I've created through this work and why I'm so obsessed with sharing it with others so that you too can move quickly. Not by bypassing or ignoring things that need to be felt and understood and honored, but also knowing that you have a choice. That you get to consciously make choices throughout your life that support the outcome that you desire, that support the results that you would love to create in your life, even if that seems unattainable, unrealistic, or impossible to other people.
[00:18:38] Because really, truly, if you told me my life would be this incredible, I would've said, yes, I know it will be. But it's even better than I could've planned. I'm literally recording this podcast in a freshly made bed. I was delivered coffee by my husband. He's making breakfast right now, and when I manifested my husband, I also manifested the three bed, two bath with a balcony that had been on my vision board for years. Right? What are the chances? That I manifested the love, the man, and the apartment all in one. Like, you can't tell me this stuff doesn't work because I just have too much evidence of it in my own life and in my clients' lives.
[00:19:32] So this is your opportunity to plant the seeds, that you're allowed to have Anything and Everything that you desire. You are allowed to trust yourself in what you would love, and to start speaking those things out loud to yourself. You can do this privately in a closed bedroom, but really truly, it gets to be even better than you expected. It gets to be more than you could have planned for yourself, more than you could have dreamed of. And that starts by letting yourself dream really, really fully, and holding your desires at the fullest vision, not at the achievable, tangible side, right?
[00:20:20] We wanna really stretch the vision, so that life, the universe can meet you there. I could not be more thrilled that you're here. I'll meet you back here for another episode. See you soon.
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